Time is flying and we have just about hit the 3 month mark as expats in Bangkok.  Not surprising, but we’ve learned a few more tidbits about Bangkok, being an expat and we are really starting to find our groove living abroad.

The funny thing about living abroad is, just like being where you used to call home, eventually it starts to feel normal.

It’s normal to start sweat almost immediately after leaving the house.
It’s normal that most people around us are speaking in a language I barely understand.
It’s normal (or at least starting to feel normal) not to be going off to work each day.

Not to say I’m taking for-granted this amazing experience, but it’s nice that life is feeling more normal and less like I’m on constant sensory overload.  :)

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Some tidbits about Bangkok …

  1. Unlike the Metro, the BTS isn’t a free for all when it comes to boarding the train.  People actually line up and board in an orderly fashion. It took me a while to realize it wasn’t proper social etiquette to just rush the train doors once people finish disembarking.  {See picture above of Jellybean lining up at the appropriate arrow.}
  2. Right now the exchange rate range is about 35 baht to the dollar.  My brain cannot do the math quick enough.  One day soon I know it’s going to click and the calculation won’t be necessary, but until then I often whip out the cell phone to figure out how much something is.
  3. When I switched to a Thai SIM card a lot more changed than just my phone number.  Instead of having a monthly plan I now just ‘top off’ my cell phone phone when my balance is running low.  The craziest part is I can add money at the 7-11!  The other day we were running late to a playdate and my cell died (that’s what I get for ignoring 5 text messages my balance was low) and all I did was pop into 7-11 to add money to my cell phone.  I was nervous it wouldn’t work, but it was seamless!
  4. Speaking of paying things at 7-11 … a lots of bills can be paid at the 7-11 OR by doing a direct deposit into a company’s account.  Few places take check or credit card as far as I can tell.  You pay in cash, direct deposit into their account or just go to 7-11.  Who would have thunk?
  5. There is an abundance of trash cans in DC.  Here, in Bangkok, trash cans are few and far between.  I’ve become strangely adept hoarding trash in my backpack {or back pocket} and discarding it at home or bathroom trash cans.  I don’t really understand why there are no trash cans, but I kind of miss the trash cans on every corner.
  6. Recycling is nonexistent, as far as I can tell, in Bangkok.  I was obsessed with separating out bottle/cans/paper in DC and now it all just goes in one bag.  I feel guilty sometimes when I throw a can into the trash.
  7. Bangkok is a foodie city, similar to DC and NYC, you can find just about any type of cuisine you would like.  While we haven’t been out to eat as much as I might like the places we have tried are really good!
  8. I am now ‘adept’ at telling the taxi driver to turn (leow) left (sai) and right (kwaa).  I can also tell him the number of my street and the number of one other street that we visit frequently.  Some of the taxi drivers correct my pronunciation and others pretend they have no idea what I’m saying.  I’m learning slowly, but in all honesty the Thai language isn’t easy and being tonal one word can mean 5 different things depending on the inflection in your voice. Ahhh!
  9. Buying food labeled in a foreign language can be interesting.  Like the time we bought that strange milk for a couple weeks in a row since it ‘looked’ like whole milk containers from the States.  Turns out it was ‘sweet milk’ or whatever that is…  Or the all-to-common experience of buying street food and convincing yourself it’s probably chicken, or beef, or pork (ish).  But it’s sooo tasty!
  10. Personal space is fairly limited here.  It is socially acceptable to stand super close to someone, touch their child or push past someone without even an excuse me.  While I’m still not comfortable with the person behind me in line practically touching my back as we wait, I have had to adopt the pushing past people in order to get where I’m going … though I do try to say excuse me (or thoot in Thai).

And if you missed it, please check out the first installment of Bit of Bangkok.  More of our Bangkok adventures, to date, can be found here or please follow us on Instagram.

What kind of Bangkok tidbits would you like to know more about?

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A few weekends ago the family took in the sights and went to Wat Pho for the morning.  It was beautiful and truly felt good to finally ‘see the sights’.  The best part was I didn’t feel rushed or forced to see everything all at once.  When we couldn’t take the heat anymore we stopped had lunch and headed home.  It was SO nice to know we can always go back … we have 2 years (or really t-minus 22 months)!

We took the BTS (which I can’t stop calling the Metro – thanks DC!) down to the Chao Phraya River and then took a boat up the river to the stop closest to Wat Pho.  Next time I would have taken the smaller boat (see picture below) instead of the big touristy passenger boat, but we weren’t really paying attention and bought tickets to the first place we stumbled upon.

Bangkok River Boat | Life's Tidbits

Less than a 10 minute walk later we arrived at Wat Pho.  It was HOT, which shouldn’t be a surprise anymore!  Admission was 100 BHT per person and you must have exact change.  We just happen to have exact change, but I was definitely surprised by the requirement.  We wandered around for a bit and took some pictures along the way …

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

 

As I’ve mentioned before, Jellybean is a bit of a celebrity around these parts and as we walked around her photo was snapped many (many!) times.  The most interesting was when we were visiting one of the Buddha’s, pictured below, a young man asked to take a picture of her.  My husband graciously agreed at which point the man’s iPhone was aggressively pushed in the hubby’s face.  Faster than either of us could comprehend what was happening the man gently grabbed Jellybean, plopped her on his lap and smiled for the camera!  I couldn’t help it and started to chuckle.  The husband gave me the side eye to stop it.  I couldn’t help, but smile back.  I don’t think I will ever get used to people we don’t know taking Jellybean’s picture (with or without our consent).

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

The last thing we saw was the Reclining Buddha.  It was truly amazing.

Wat Pho - Reclining Buddha | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho - Reclining Buddha | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Wat Pho - Reclining Buddha | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

A few tips when visiting Wat Pho …

  • Bring exact change for entrance fee – 100 BHT (mentioned above)
  • Wear comfortable shoes, but if they easily slip on/off easily that’s for the best.  You can have to remove your shoes to visiting many of the Buddha’s so it will make things a little easier.
  • You must cover your shoulders and knees to visit the Reclining Buddha and some of the other Buddhas in the area as well.  There are skirts, robes and scarves available to wear while visiting specific temples, which is very useful.  If you are apposed to wearing the provided clothing I definitely recommend wearing short-sleeves and pants/skirt/dress that covers your knees.
  • Bring a bottle of water!  Near the Reclining Buddha you can redeem your entrance tickets for a bottle of cold water, however we were thirsty and hot while walking around.  I was glad we had water on hand prior to the seeing the Reclining Buddha.

Have you been to Wat Pho?

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We’ve lived in Bangkok for over month now.  That just sounds weird out loud! Seriously, how does the time go by so quickly?  Overall we are still getting adjusted and slowly finding a new routine for the whole family.  Jet leg was killer and I reverted back to when Jellybean was just a wee one and ‘slept when the baby slept’ for the first week or so.

After only about a week here bomb went off in downtown Bangkok.  It gave the hubby and I a moment of pause.  Did we do the right thing moving here?  And if I’m being totally honest I had the ‘OH $H!T’ moment and seriously considered aborting this whole living abroad thing for a few minutes (or hours … whateves!).  Things are scary at home and abroad.  It’s the world we live in, unfortunately.

Being a stay-at-home-mom has been even busier than I imagined it would be.  Between exploring the city (indoor playground, outdoor playgrounds, museums, swim lessons and playgroups), running errands and keeping up with the general housework I am totally pooped at the end of the day.  The hubby thinks his job is tiring, but I’ve got him beat.  :)

Here’s what we’ve been up to lately …

Jellybean and I hit up Ocean World on our first day out just the two of us.  It was a total success – not only did we both love the museum, but I managed to get there on the BTS without getting lost!  Let’s just keep it between us, but I spent 5 plus minutes trying to figure out which BTS exit to take, hahaha.

SEA LIFE Bangkok Ocean World | Life's Tidbits

SEA LIFE Bangkok Ocean World | Life's Tidbits

SEA LIFE Bangkok Ocean World | Life's Tidbits

SEA LIFE Bangkok Ocean World | Life's Tidbits

I don’t have any pictures, but we’ve gone to a few playgroups and Jellybean takes swim lessons once a week.  The swim lessons are amazing.  A vast improvement over the classes we took when she was little.  We took a little break from playgroups due to Jellybean getting a cold, but I hope to get back into the swing of them soon.  I’ve located a few new ones I think will be a good fit for Jellybean and me.

Indoor playgrounds are all the rage here.  They are super fun and honestly as I already mentioned, we should adopt this kind of play area in the States.  Jellybean and I had a blast at Molly Fantasy.  We plan to try out a new indoor playground called Funarium soon.

Molly Fantasy in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Molly Fantasy in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Molly Fantasy in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Molly Fantasy in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Molly Fantasy in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

If you are okay with sweating (seriously you are in Bangkok, just OWN the sweating) then Benchasiri park / playground and Benjaritti park are both fabulous places to take the little ones.  I would also mention here both parks have workout areas, which kind of reminds me of Rock Creek Parkway.  At some point I will have to go to the parks on my own so I can take advantage of the workout stuff.

Benchasiri Playground | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Benchasiri Playground | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Benchasiri Playground | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Benchasiri Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

 

Benjaritti Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Benjaritti Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Phra Buddha Wisuthimongkol | Benjaritti Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Phra Buddha Wisuthimongkol | Benjaritti Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Benjaritti Park | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

And, last, but certainly not least … we’ve had some DELICIOUS food!

Authentic Thai Prawns and Noodles | Pier 21 at Terminal 21 in Bangkok | Life's Tidbits

Authentic Thai Pork Dish | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Prawn Tom Yum Authentic Thai Food | Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Singha Beer in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

Authentic Thai Fried Salmon Dish in Bangkok | Life's Tidbits

Korean Food in Bangkok, Thailand | Life's Tidbits

What have you been up to lately?

For more on our adventures in Bangkok, please click here or follow along on Instagram (#BitsOfBangkok).

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Saw-dee-cha from Bangkok!  We are having a great time here and slowly getting adjusted to the Expat life.  Despite it being rainy season it hasn’t been nearly as bad as I had feared.  I’m sure now that I’ve thrown that out there the monsoons will get their game face on and show me who’s boss.  Hahaha.

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  1. Saw-dee-cha means hello!
  2. The Thai drive on the wrong LEFT side of the road
  3. Speaking of driving the traffic is insane.  It’s like nothing I’ve ever seen before.  A drive that took 10 minutes one day can take 35 minutes another.  It’s miserable to sit in the traffic … not to mention as someone who’s clearly not from here we’ve been ‘taken for a ride’ out of our way on more than one occasion.
  4. And before we move away from motor vehicles, let me just add it’s like playing double dutch when trying to cross the street.  There is NO yield to pedestrians like the States!
  5. Thai food is fantastic and actually closer to the Thai food we have in American than I thought it would be, but obviously there’s a lot more variety.
  6. Sidewalks are virtually nonexistent.  I was told by many people who have visited or lived in Bangkok we should leave our stroller behind … and they were right.  The sidewalks are extremely arrow if they exist at all.  While I’m glad we put our big stroller into storage our little umbrella stroller has come in quite handy {when you have a child who won’t hold your hand and is on the move constantly, it’s important to have a way to, shall we say contain them!}.
  7. With blonde hair and blue eyes, my daughter attracts the attention of many most of the Thai people it seems.  They smile, wave, stare and often try to touch or pick her up.  Jellybean isn’t a fan of this unsolicited attention and often say “no, no, no” very loudly.  I have had to ask people not to touch her, which has been a bit interesting.
  8. Pretty much anything you can buy in the States your can buy in Bangkok.  The grocery store closest to us has Jiffy peanut butter, McCormick’s onion gray as well as Sorrento cheese.  I was almost disappointed {for lack of a better word} to find everything so similar to home, but not to worry I quickly stocked up on all our go-to brands/foods. :)
  9. The heat isn’t what get to me … it’s the HUMIDITY!  Everyone I spoke to and everything I read mentioned how HOT Thailand is.  Don’t get me wrong it is hot, but the humidity makes the heat less bearable.  Just standing outside for 10 minutes caused me to break a sweat {attractive – I know!}.
  10. Mall Life … or at least that’s what I’m calling it.  The malls in Thailand are huge, beautiful and clean.  They have everything you could ever possibly want to purchase and hanging out in malls is kind of the thing to do, which makes sense since it’s insanely hot outside.  The indoor playgrounds are amazing.  Seriously, I think it could be a huge money maker in the States, and if it was in my wheelhouse I would totally put together a business plan and open one of these play-areas as we move home.

We are learning a lot and trying new things.  I started taking Thai classes today and well, I am TERRIBLE at languages in general and this is, unfortunately, no different!  Despite my lack of natural talent for picking up new languages, I am going to stick with it and hope to learn enough Thai to carry on a simple conversation.  Got to start somewhere, right??

I will share more tidbits about living in Bangkok soon, but if you have any specific question, please do hesitate to leave a comment below!!

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I can’t believe we have been living in Bangkok for an entire week!  There is so much to tell and yet at the same time we haven’t really ‘done’ all that much.  But maybe, I should back up a little bit here and start closer to the beginning … in late July I left a job I loved and prepared for the big move to Southeast-Asia with my family!  One of the biggest perks of this big move is I will be taking a 2 year sabbatical {as I’m calling it} from working.  Stay-at-home-mom is my new ‘full-time’ gig.  I still can’t believe how fortunate I am to have this amazing opportunity to live abroad as well as get more time with my daughter!!

Am I a world travel? Umm no, but I’ve done a good amount of vacationing in Mexico, Canada, and Europe.  Asia, and Thailand specifically, is brand new to me.  Making the decision to move abroad is WAY outside my comfort zone, but here’s the thing ….

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
—  Wayne Gretzky

And in this case I take shots to mean opportunities.  I’m the person who follows the rules, colors inside the lines, and has generally followed a ‘typical path’ in life.  Taking big risks and making big changes aren’t things I haven’t actively sought out.  But, that is what made the decision to move to Thailand so exciting.  It’s something new, it challenges me and most importantly I wanted to do something new, not ‘on the path’ and unexpected.

Once we made the decision to move, I fluctuated between super excited and incredibly nervous with bits of sadness sprinkled in.  It’s hard knowing we are going to miss birthdays, weddings, births, holidays, and more with our family and friends.  Thank goodness there is Skype and FaceTime so we can at least be there virtually!  The last week before our move was so busy I little time to focus on my nerves.  There was so much to do like packing, closing of accounts (bye bye Comcast!) and hanging out with friends.

Our condo took 2 full days to be packed up and placed in crates.  It was strange seeing our place empty again.  So many memories in our condo!  We lived there for 3+ years … it’s our first home and the place we brought Jellybean home from hospital to.  But, it will be there when we get back and there are many new memories to make in Bangkok!

So yeah, 16+ hours of watching people pack and move our stuff into in a huge moving truck we were left with 6 big bags, carry-ons and a dog crate.  Oh, I guess to this point I didn’t mention our dog, Sophi, also moved with us to Bangkok! More on our experiences shipping a dog overseas I will include in a later post … assuming ya’ll are interested.

The items in these bags, plus a little extra that’s already at our new place – think minimal dishes and cookware – are going to tide us over until our stuff arrives.  We’ve gone from a VERY full 2 bedroom condo to 6 bags of stuff for the next 4-6 weeks … hopefully.  :)   Makes me think I should have read this book prior to the move {wink, wink}.

We left for Dulles Airport at 6am on Wednesday, August 5th and after 3 flights, 2 layovers and a cab ride we arrived at our apartment in Bangkok on Friday, August 7th at about 1:30am-ish!!  Filled with excitement and exhaustion we toured our new diggs, cooked some eggs and toast and then headed to bed.

BlueBerriesAndIPad iPad plus blueberries = quiet and happy toddler!  At least for a little while *wink, wink*

JetLagThis is what REAL jetlag looks like

The past week has been spent acclimating ourselves and Jellybean to the time change, getting familiar with our neighborhood, food shopping, eating a lot of AMAZING Thai food {we had 2 lunches and a mango smoothie for under $5 – can’t get much better than that}, hanging out poolside and general life things.  We have yet to do anything touristy and while I have some guilt we haven’t really toured the city I also realize we will be here for a few years.  Getting situated is what was most important for our first week living as expats.

CheesePoolSide I think someone is happy to be hanging out by the pool!

It would be a lie to say the adjustment to living in Thailand and being a SAHM is going seamlessly or that I’m 100% loving it after only a week … just keepin’ it real(!).  But, I’m so excited.  Excited to meet new people, try new things and spend my days exploring with Jellybean.

And I will leave you with ‘my’ final thought on this big adventure the hubby, Jellybean and I have begun …

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by
the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”
– Mark Twain

I would love to hear your recommendations on places we should visit or things you loved doing while living or visiting Thailand {or near by area}!

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